Guidance and support when parents cannot agree on important decisions affecting a child
When parents separate, many day-to-day arrangements for a child can be managed informally. However, disagreements can arise over important decisions that have a lasting impact on a child’s life, such as which school they should attend, whether they should receive particular medical treatment, whether they should be brought up in a particular religion, or whether they should relocate to another part of the country or overseas.
These situations can be particularly stressful because there is often no obvious right answer. You may feel that an important decision is being made without your agreement, or that you are unable to reach a resolution despite repeated discussions. The longer the disagreement continues, the greater the uncertainty for everyone involved, particularly the child.
Taking legal advice at an early stage can help you understand your rights, your responsibilities and the options available to resolve the dispute. In many cases, matters can be resolved through negotiation or mediation. Where agreement cannot be reached, however, it may be necessary to ask the Court to decide what is in the child’s best interests.
A Specific Issue Order allows the Family Court to determine a particular question where those with parental responsibility cannot agree. The Court’s overriding consideration will always be the child’s welfare and what outcome best meets their needs.
At Ellis-Fermor & Negus, we advise parents on whether a Specific Issue Order is appropriate, explain the process in clear, straightforward terms and work to resolve disputes as constructively as possible. Where Court proceedings are necessary, we will guide you through every stage, protecting your position while keeping your child’s welfare at the centre of every decision.
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Frequently Asked Questions
A Specific Issue Order is a type of court order that determines one specific dispute relating to a child, rather than ongoing living or contact arrangements.
It answers a defined question, such as:
- Which school a child should attend
- Whether a child should undergo medical treatment
- Whether a child should be brought up in a particular religion
- Whether a child should relocate within the UK or abroad
- Whether a child’s surname should be changed
The order provides clarity where agreement cannot be reached.
Step 1 – MIAM
Most applicants must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) unless exemptions apply
Step 2 – Court Applications
If mediation is unsuitable or unsuccessful, an application is made identifying the specific issue the court is being asked to decide.
Step 3 – Safeguarding Checks
CAFCASS conducts safeguarding checks and may speak with parents.
Step 4 – Court Hearings
The Court considers:
- Evidence from both parents
- Any professional reports
- The impact of the decision on the child
Step 5 – Court Decision
The judge makes a decision focused solely on the child’s best interests.
No, you are not legally required to have a solicitor to apply for a Specific Issue Order (SIO). However, legal advice is highly recommended because the application process involves complex paperwork, evidencing the child’s best interests, and clearly defining the specific issue to be decided. A solicitor can help:
- Draft and complete the application forms correctly
- Identify the key issues and relevant evidence
- Advise on supporting documentation, such as school reports, medical records, or witness statements
- Represent you in Court
Having professional guidance ensures your application is clear, accurate, and more likely to achieve the outcome in the child’s best interests, while reducing delays and errors that could affect the Court’s decision.
If you are considering applying for a Specific Issue Order, our team can provide expert guidance and support.
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